The accepted church of today has turned Jesus into an imaginary friend and have changed Him to accept how they live. Ephesians 5:5-6 condemns their sins, “For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.  6 Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience.” Immorality, fornication, pornography, violence, drunkenness, destroying your body (smoking, chewing, etc.) are practiced in the “saved” churches. This explains perfectly pleasure-loving people all having a "personal relationship" with "their" imaginary friend named Jesus!
Paul calls your imaginary friend another Jesus in II Corinthians 11:4, "For if he that cometh preacheth another Jesus, whom we have not preached, or if ye receive another spirit, which ye have not received, or another gospel, which ye have not accepted, ye might well bear with him."  Have you invented "another Jesus?"
 Is your imaginary friend the True God of love?
The God of love cast Lucifer from heaven condemning him for all eternity (Isaiah 14:12); the God of love put “letter-of-the-law” rules upon Adam and Eve and then removed them from the Garden of Eden, pronouncing curses upon them (Genesis 2:16,17); the God of love destroyed the world by a flood (Genesis 6:17); the God of love confused the languages at Babel and scattered people around the world, bringing division  (Genesis 11:7,8); the God of love destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah for the same sins that are being practiced in our country and even in most churches